Busting Your Excuses | Clarksville TN Boudoir
Busting Your Excuses!
When we get nervous, we make excuses. We make excuses not to put ourselves first. Sometimes life is just busy, we are too crazy at work, or always have to drive someone somewhere. Sometimes it’s more important to spend time with our spouse. Other excuses are “I want to loose weight first” or “I don’t have the money right now.” I wanted to write this to show you that no matter the excuse, you CAN do it! Let me show you that no matter the excuse, you are worthy of self love.
“I don’t have enough time for myself”
It’s important to remember that if you aren’t taking care of yourself mentally, you’re not going to be able to handle taking care of everyone else. Which makes sense but is actually much harder said then done. Sometimes I’m the worst at making sure I am giving myself mental breaks, and that’s why I think it’s important to share this with you all. I make the same excuses as you, sis. and most times I just need someone to look me in the face and say “SLOW DOWN, give yourself a break, breath for a minute!”
At a boudoir shoot you are able to breath and focus on yourself for a few hours. Think of all the energy you will save on a daily basis, if you stop comparing yourself to other and worrying about what other people will think. You get to see where beauty really comes from and this lifts such a huge mental weight.
You need to take time for yourself , and why not spend it having an amazing experience and getting glammed up for one?
“I’m not where I want to be weight wise / I don’t fit the medias idea of beautiful”
Did you know the body type that is portrayed in advertising as the ideal possessed naturally by only 5% of American females? ONLY FIVE PRECENT!
I will say this over and over again (sorry not sorry) but WHY do you have to be a certain size to LOVE yourself? Why do you have to fit a strangers messed up idea of a perfect body to LOVE yours own? WHY are you comparing your size to everyone else, when no two women are the same!
Don’t get me wrong, I think it’s amazing to have realistic goals and want to better yourself in a healthy way. But that doesn’t mean you have to hate your body in the meantime. You should love yourself every step of the way. Be proud of where you are so that you can be proud of where you’re going. Have a boudoir photo shoot to celebrate where you are now, and then have one when you reach those goals to celebrate how far you’ve come! I’m giving you permission to love yourself as you are in the point in your life.
“I never feel sexy or sensual anymore, so a boudoir shoot must not be for me “
WRONG! This excuse is actually exactly the reason why you should do a boudoir photo shoot.
Often times we lose touch with our femineity and sexuality when life gets crazy, because of health, kids, work. I know I’ve been there, having two babies back to back. My sexuality was non existent. But you know what? It happens to so many of us, and its normal and 100% okay if you’re going through something like this now.
A great way to find this side of ourselves again is to have a boudoir shoot done to bring out that sexy feminine side of us! I can help show you that you still have that inside of you, and it may even reignite the spark between you and your partner as well. I know for a FACT a couples boudoir session would!
Another thing to remember is you don’t have to wear anything super revealing or overly sexy. I encourage you to wear what you feel comfortable and sexy in. Like they say, “nudity empowers some and modesty empowers others” When you do book a boudoir session with me, I walk you through everything when it comes to wardrobe, I help style you in what you feel comfortable and beautiful in.
“A boudoir shoot is an investment and I don’t have all the money right now”
Yes, a boudoir photo shoot is an investment. It is also an investment in yourself. You are investing in your well-being and confidence as well! And guess what girl, I offer payment plans ! In order to book your shoot there is a booking retainer and after that we can set up a simples affordable payment plan that suits you! If you have any questions about starting a payment plan, Email me !
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